New Year but No New Me

With the title, I might have already disappointed many of you guys but honestly, as much as I love to celebrate New Year’s Eve and I love the idea of a fresh start of new seasons, I also hate the fact that the world turns its attention toward the idea of New Year’s resolution. I to have suckered on to this idea but I have set my self-free from all the boundaries, I finally have understood that “New Year New You” is nothing but a fancy way to remind people that they aren’t good enough.

I believe that it is just the calendar and the seasons that change and we shouldn’t let the folklore dictate that “I should change only this NEW YEAR” instead of it let us set goals every step in our life and let try to be that “better person” you decide to become from 1st of January every single day, why to confine to that particular date ?  The answer to this is “EXCUSES”.

Besides everything else, I have had an amazing 2017 starting from work opportunities,  meeting some amazing souls, playing around with my babies and endless amount of amazing moments with my loved ones and my  supporters but as they say, good things come along with bad things I also went through lows, encountered and entertained people that hardly cared about feelings, let alone mine but in human ground.

But again every single day in the life is a learning process and I have learned my lessons and I choose not to entertain anymore to these sort of scavengers that portrays a different personality superficially, provided I am still going to be nice and
I will be just replying with love and that is how I deal with things now. ( well definitely not pleasing them in any form )

My point on NEW YEAR BUT NO NEW ME is that of being Ok if you don’t want to change and you choose to be happy with who you are and how you are going  because it is slightly easy to fill things we should be better at and let your head spin on what you still haven’t achieved while on the thought of creating resolutions so why pile and exhaust yourself with a certain aspect of life.

There is nothing wrong with setting goals, to feel motivated but we can choose to have a fresh start any time we want without chiming and that is my whole point. Let’s leave room for more important things such as the days of just joy, the moments I am proud of myself, the people that bring a smile to my face and just think about my fur babies.

Well instead of ending 2017 with the thought of what I should change, I choose to embrace all the good things that occurred and also choose to embrace what is to come.

And this is how I choose to start 2018 as well.










Turtle Neck – Zara

Bell Bottoms – Koovs

Kitten Mule – Zara

Fanny –  Thrifted

Image – Lekha Rathnam

PS: All the images are unedited except the featured image.


Fall Fashion My Way


My babes know how much I love the fourth temperate season, something about fall excites me so much that I never have failed to do a post or make a post each year. From the changing of leaves color, pumpkins, pumpkin spice latte to its scented candles but what excites me the most is “THE FASHION”.

Inevitably, as it starts to cool our clothing also changes in terms of textures and hues. The transitions are always fun, it brings forth all your warm tone clothing and hence the abundance of warm palette explodes into an autumnal melody.

I have put together 2 looks for this very fall post, curating these outfits got me so joyous as I styled it in my very own way and my most happy moment is when I do things that is ME.

Look 1 – A Trench Coat in warm tone Gray Green paired with my black mules and a hooped handle clutch all 3 from ZARA. Adding a bit of punk with F21 over reacting cap.

This outfit takes its inspiration from the bygones times, not wearing as what it is but as a dress is what makes me call “FALL FASHION MY WAY”  I am pretty sure a lot of other fashionistas do it too and I love all of them for doing so. Instead of wearing a pair of boots I chose to wear mules, this way the entire looks remains subtle, classy yet a bit casual just how I like. 






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Look 2 – A Shirt Dress with Ballon Sleeves from ZAPYLE again paired with Mules (checked) my current obsession and checked sling with a bow from ZARA.

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 I love the fact that both the outfit came along with waist belt because if you know me I love belts as it accentuates your waist and gives a different dimension. 

I also filmed a lookbook hope you guys enjoy this post.



Today let’s make an investment and give commitment to own self , lets take time to make one’s self better and let us take time to self – love !

Self – love sounds really simple or for some a big task ? It can’t possibly be that hard, from my experience it had been one hell of a journey and a journey that is still on…             During this very journey I discovered self-love could come from all perspective be it accepting your all of your flaws or in my case I learnt to accept how I am more blessed with almost no eye brows ,  my very “Mongolian” eye amongst the beautiful main land Indians , my very uneven , saggy cellulite and dents and the moment I decided i am going to stop criticising myself , self doubting and finally kept my wistful thought behind I felt so free and bodacious in all way !

Saying says that “the longest relationship is with your self” and hence self- love is one damn criteria to protect it ,this very word taught me not to typically stalk what others are upto and just keep doing what i have to and I realised the results are in terms of being content and self secure !

I am seeking to commit to my own self , my own goals and my own life purpose even more , i still am learning and there are times that I am defeated and my love of dressing up ,writing blogs ,posing and all things fashion and make up related that I love comes nifty and utilitarian to boost up and triumph the self defeat !


Here I am wearing outfits from NA-KD that are so spiffing and gave me more courage to love myself ,and feel more jim-dandy ! I wore them my way to seize my style , the unique  wide and broad range of products with an engaging manner took my attention and couldn’t stop scrolling down the bars and explore the grandeur fashion choices !

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Styled the mesh top and the panel ankle jeans casually with some hint of verve and edge, this gave me so much of robust vibe which I absolutely love !The mesh top could be styled both ways with a body suit in or a tee out like how I did , i like it both ways . The high waisted panel jeans got me back to some denim love which I was not to doting of because of my hip and dent !

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Sinking in a lot of positive and fresh energy in a beautiful long black dress is very possible ,this one from na-kd was the perfect fit for a ME time with HIGH TEA .


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Summer calls for some peppy and jazzy ecstasy and what better than a siena orange culotte for a perfect day out !

I AM SHARING A PART OF MY SELF – LOVE JOURNEY WITH EVERY ONE ,lets keep negatives and insecurity behind and lets take challenge with own self to speak ,wear what ever makes us feel good !It is really OK to love you and be in relationship with you before doing so with others !

You could also get some discount when you shop from by using thiyam20 🙂

Image Courtesy : Lekha Rathnam

Outfit Courtesy :

AMBER GLARE featuring LILLIE by Ruthie

What is that one thing you want to don during the hot summer day ? And yet you want to upscale your style quotient ? 

I am an idolatry of good fabrics with good prints and cuts , these 3 criterias  for sure is key to comfort of your outfit ,And what adds on to it ? The Color ! I am in love with this crop top with flared arm  in the subtractive Color complimentary to blue , with some stripes of black and white .

You can snug as a bug in a rug with it ! The fabric is so light but not see through at the same time , you can do this up with a pair of culotte or a flared pants ! Like I did ( denim culotte ) Even a pair of straight fit pants , skirt or ripped jeans will do choicest ! This is so versatile that you can be quick-witted and create the best pair !!

Thanks Ruthie for sending in this beautiful thing !